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One of the greatest benefits to everyone is that a Gynarchic lifestyle simplifies life for everyone. Things are defined more clearly and are better understood.
It is at this point you will need to open your mind as this website shall assist people in understanding the aspects of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) Gynarchy. If you already read the Principals then you have some ideas about how speaking directly (without hinting) and using a reward system can benefit the Female/male relationship. This is true regardless if you are a Gynarchist or not.
Women are naturally powerful. It is instinctual that We protect. We will protect all children, not just our own. We protect our home because We are the Matriarch. Gynarchy BDSM may seem extreme until you think of how much of the Female/male relationship is already based on rules mandated by the Woman.
Business and monetary ambition are the goals for men. men need to know when they are good. As the Mother it is our duty to teach, reward, and discipline. In entering into a Gynarchic lifestyle, the males must know that Women are wonderful, powerful beings to be worshipped since She is the Matriarch. As a Woman it is your duty to teach, instruct, guide, train, and direct the man. You must decide if You are going to let him know that you are training him.
In a BDSM Gynarchic lifestyle You will find that the male shall not only be the 'bread winner' if You want but he also will gladly take care of household chores. Through training he will become less lazy and even desire to do what a Woman wants. men react very well to praise and rewards.
In BDSM Gynarchy the male is submissive and this state of being may go all the way to a slave like mentality. How far You want it to go is all up to You. Don’t think You will just be sounding out orders. You Yourself must also make the change to Gynarchism and then to BDSM. Since this is just an article to give you some understanding of what BDSM Gynarchy is, it will not teach You to become the Mistress of Your home.
The main aspect of BDSM in Gynarchic BDSM would be ‘D’ discipline. As the creative Woman You are, You will know he best way to discipline Your man. Humiliation, extra chores, no ejaculation, being in chastity, spankings, bondage (the ‘B’ of BDSM), not getting to go out with the guys and so forth could work for You. You have to train the man so You must also discipline it and reward it.
Some Women will put the man in bondage and give spankings or use other BDSM implements to administer the punishment - not a beating. The man must be told what he did wrong and You must explain to him why he knew it was wrong. You must tell him of the next punishment he will receive if he does it again. And he must apologize to You.
Your favorite way to give punishment may be that you tease him sexually and deny him release or that You use him sexually for only Your gratification while his is ignored till You say he can.
The aspect of ‘SM’ sadomasochism may be physical, mental, and/or emotional. A Sadist loves giving pain – period. The more the submissive doesn’t want it, the more the Sadist would enjoy it. Women can be more of a sadist than men because We can hurt a man in many more manipulative ways.
A masochist enjoys pain. So in the polite evolved society we have become people like to think a Sadist pairs up with a masochist. If you are in a BDSM Gynarchic lifestyle then the couple does practice SM if even on a mental or emotional level.
There is a big difference in being a bitch than being a Gynarchic Bitch. I rule – period. No compromise, I have set the rules. No nagging – once is enough. A nice simple life.